In rectangle $PQRS$ , $PQ=8$ and $QR=6$ . Points $A$ and $B$ lie on $\overline{PQ}$ , points $C$ and $D$ lie on $\overline{QR}$ , points $E$ and $F$ lie on $\overline{RS}$ , and points $G$ and $H$ lie on $\overline{SP}$ so that $AP=BQ<4$ and the convex octagon $ABCDEFGH$ is equilateral. The length of a side of this octagon can be expressed in the form $k+m\sqrt{n}$ , where $k$ , $m$ , and $n$ are integers and $n$ is not divisible by the square of any prime. What is $k+m+n$ ?